What No One Tells You About Dating in China as a Black Man

Hey, my fellow traveler!

It’s your boy Dixonskii, coming at you from China with some real talk about dating over here, especially for us black guys curious about how Asian women see us. Buckle up, because I’m about to drop some truths that might just shake up everything you’ve thought about this topic.

You might have caught wind of conversations suggesting that black men are, supposedly, the last pick for Asian women. This narrative spins from a rather toxic viewpoint, painting a bleak picture based on limited experiences. But, let’s not dwell on negativity, shall we? After all, your boy Dixonskii doesn’t do leftovers—I’m all about that fresh, front-of-the-line life, and I’m here to help you get there too.

Steering clear of those downer vibes is key. Surrounding yourself with naysayers who doubt your dreams will only hold you back. So, let’s ignore those clowns and dive into the real deal about dating here.

With almost ten years of living and dating in Asia, I’ve got some insights that challenge the tired stereotypes. For starters, the dating game isn’t a simple black and white scenario (pun intended). Yes, some white guys with strong European features might seem to have an edge due to the prevalent beauty standards in Asia, but that’s just part of the picture.

Let’s talk about what would make a black man appealing in the eyes of Asian women, based on the general attributes of guys who’ve done well here. Think tall, with a youthful, clean-shaven look that borders on the baby-faced side, which is a big hit in Asia. Add a cool, hip-hop-inspired hairstyle into the mix, and you’ve got a recipe for attraction. This kind of look strays from the ultra-masculine vibe favored in the West and leans more into the soft, approachable aesthetic many Asian pop stars rock.

Now, for the real shocker: the most attractive guys in Asia aren’t white or Asian—they’re mixed. I’ve noticed that stars who are part Asian and part something else are killing it. They’ve got the best of both worlds, appealing to a wide range of tastes.

I’ve seen some half Chinese half African guys who hit the genetic lottery—smooth chocolate skin paired with Asian facial features, tall statures, and killer hairstyles. These dudes? Absolute babe magnets. Their mixed heritage not only makes them stand out, but also bridges cultural gaps that can be appealing to Asian women, especially those looking to bring someone home who won’t completely shock the parents.

In essence, the allure isn’t about fitting a single mold but embracing and maximizing your unique attributes. Whether you’re competing in a nightclub or just living your day-to-day life, being confident in what you bring to the table is crucial.

Before I wrap up, let’s not forget the importance of fitness and hygiene—universal aspects of attraction, no matter where you are in the world. Staying on top of your game physically can boost your appeal significantly, making you a strong contender in the dating scene here. Hitting the gym, staying sharp with your fashion, and keeping on top of your hygiene (shoutout to my TravaLux toiletry bag) can really up your game.

So, there you have it. The landscape of dating in China as a black man is far from cut-and-dry. It’s filled with opportunities to stand out, connect, and find your place among those looking for love (or just some hot action for the night!). Remember, it’s all about playing to your strengths and keeping an open mind.

Until next time, keep exploring and expanding your horizons. Who knows where your next journey might lead?

I’ll see you in the skies.

-Danny

P.S. Interested in getting an in-depth consultation about China? Come and book a one-on-one private consultation! I’d be happy to share my almost 9 years of China experience with you. Have a great day!