An axiom that you’ll often hear (black) American men throw around is “Don’t go for the woman you want, go for the woman who wants you.”

And sometimes they’ll even throw an additional sentence to the end of that – “Because the woman you want is too expensive”

I personally think this line of thinking is garbage, but it’s gotten much more popular these days

Ever since the death of pickup artistry, many men stopped caring to learn the art of seducing a woman. Many guys just want the woman to instantly like them, without them needing to do or say anything

This kind of fantasy has a lot of appeal to lazy guys with no game (especially those who spend most of their time in areas where women are willing to buss it down for $20)

Call me old fashioned, but I’m mostly OK with needing to occasionally court women in order for me to get a slice of the 🍰🍰. I don’t EXPECT for women to just throw the booty at me without me needing to do or say anything